Waiting to Exhale


I don't know about you but it feels really tense right now.  It is that feeling of "waiting for the other shoe to drop" or "when it rains it pours".  That kind of feeling that goes away when enough good things happen in a row to help you forget all of the bad things that just happened.  You know what I mean?

Our family has been through the wringer these past weeks.  My husband's younger brother died suddenly of a heart attack.  That certainly threw everyone out of kilter but the circumstances are complicated due to the fact that my brother-in-law was in the middle of a pretty nasty divorce.  He died leaving one child in middle school and two in high school.  Due to the acrimony of the divorce, it was not a funeral that promoted an amazing life lived but accusation and blame.  Such a shame and certainly compounded the grief.

Then, a week later, my son fell off of the jungle gym at school and broke his leg.  A "toddler fracture" they called it, as they wrapped his leg from foot to thigh in a pastel blue cast.  Of course, all of this happened while my husband was on a very important business trip.  Can you believe that it took more than 36 hours to get an appointment to cast my son's leg after we identified it was broken?



However, our family is mending and healing and certainly our troubles are minor compared to so many others.  But, doesn't it just "feel" like we are all "waiting to exhale"?

It just feels to me that things will continue to get more complicated, negative and problematic in the short term before things feel better.  The economy is obviously (and finally) reacting to the "all you can eat" real estate finance buffet that was extended to consumers over the past few years.  And, we have this weird election going on.  Florida and Michigan clearly knowing they were breaking rules and whining that they now can't play.  McCain in Iraq giving poor speeches, Hillary and her migraine inducing shrill voice yelling at me that she is going to make things better and Obama feeling pressured to say bad things about the man that married him because he had a "black rant".

Come on, think about it.  Do you really, really want a panderer to be the next President?  How many friends do you have, whom you love and trust, but disagree with them on certain subjects or even a single argument?  Seriously, does every politician need to distance themselves from everyone who may have a strong opinion because it may offend someone?  What have we come to?

I blame - yes, BLAME - the media.  You put crap up there and then tell me how to think about it.  Well, F-You Bill O'Reilly and Lou Dobbs and Chris Matthews and all of the rest of you looking for or fabricating sensational political stories that are only (if at all) partly correct.  Seriously, my life is full of enough drama as it is, the news media need not compound it.

I am ready for the answers to the nominee for the Democratic Party - and I do hope it is Obama.

I am ready for gas prices to come down.

I am ready to hear the real plan to curb inflation and minimize the recession we are now facing.

I am ready to feel less frenzied and defensive.

I am waiting to exhale.




Until next time, be well!

Erin
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  • 3/22/2008 7:02 AM Momo Fali wrote:
    Oh Erin, I'm glad to hear you are mending and healing. I can't imagine the roller coaster of emotions you've been through lately, and I am so sorry for the loss of your brother-in-law. It's time for good things to come your way. I hope that shoe doesn't drop.
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  • 3/22/2008 7:51 AM Aruni Gunasegaram wrote:
    Wow, you are going through a lot! Sorry to hear about your brother-in-law and your baby's leg.

    I know what you mean about 'waiting to exhale.' Always holding our breaths for fear something bad is coming around the corner...but often our worries are unfounded.

    I also know what you mean about the political mess we have in this country. It is a shame that the media picks out something that happens every day to every one (i.e., someone not agreeing with us) and blows it out of proportion.

    Sigh.
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  • 3/22/2008 8:41 AM Mama Zen wrote:
    Wow, you ARE getting put through the wringer! Hang in there. It's got to get better, right?
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  • 3/22/2008 12:11 PM Call Me Ms. Maxwell wrote:
    I have been writing a post just like this one in my head for weeks. I couldn't get it right -- has it been about being grateful? Is it the phase of the moon? Was 2007 the harbinger of what 2008 would bring? Yes, all of that, but overall I realized after reading your thoughts that I've been waiting to exhale. The crazy election, and the recession parked on the horizon like a vessel of doom, and the general sentiment of defense and attack...it's all adding up. Thanks for sharing your tenuous position, and I hope your other shoe doesn't drop. We're not alone, and that feels really good.
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  • 3/23/2008 2:14 AM Heather wrote:
    I hope you and your family have a wonderful Easter. You definitely deserve it. I know you've had a rough couple of weeks. I have been thinking of you.

    Lots of hugs,
    :]
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  • 3/23/2008 9:07 AM Amy@UWM wrote:
    Wow. So sorry to hear about your very difficult month. Those are two very stressful events and for them to happen within weeks of each other has to be so tough. Big hugs to you and your family.

    And you're right about the rest of us. We're all waiting to get past this very difficult period in our nation's history. We're all ready for a kinder, gentler time. I'm with you -- I think Obama's the only one who can truly deliver it.
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  • 3/25/2008 1:35 PM AmyV wrote:
    Yikes! I hope things get better soon. I can't believe it took so long to get your son in a cast AFTER they diagnosed it as broken. And people think there's nothing wrong w/our healthcare system.
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  • 3/27/2008 2:12 PM PunditMom wrote:
    I'm so sorry about what your family's been through recently. And I'm right there with you on this economy and election stuff.
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  • 3/30/2008 1:10 PM Elizabeth wrote:
    You guys have really been through it!

    I'm sorry for your loss, and I hope your son continues to be on the mend.
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