﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><ttl>60</ttl><title>Expecting Executive Blog</title><link>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com</link><language>en</language><copyright /><itunes:subtitle> </itunes:subtitle><itunes:author>Expecting Executive</itunes:author><itunes:summary /><description /><itunes:owner><itunes:name>Expecting Executive</itunes:name><itunes:email>info@expectingexecutive.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:category text="Arts" /><item><title>This Mom Loves Cast Covers!</title><link>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/03/27/this-mom-loves-cast-covers.aspx</link><dc:creator>Expecting Executive</dc:creator><description>&lt;BR&gt;So, everyone now knows that Scooby is in a full let cast for three more weeks.&amp;nbsp; They make this wonderful invention called a cast cover - and no, it's not a plastic bag and a rubber band.&amp;nbsp; This is a cast cover: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;
&lt;CENTER&gt;&lt;IMG style="WIDTH: 239px; HEIGHT: 162px" height=121 src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/83475-72975/Leg_cast_cover.jpg" width=400 border=0&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;It has the plastic "O-Ring" that has a rubber diaphragm in the middle of it with a hole that is just large enough to push the cast through.&amp;nbsp; Once over the cast, the rubber diaphragm creates a seal on the skin that keeps water from getting into the cast cover bag.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I have now used the cast cover in the shower as well as the bath and the cast has stayed completely dry.&amp;nbsp; We also have the teachers put it on when it is time to play outside in the sandbox.&amp;nbsp; Handy, handy, handy!&amp;nbsp; And inexpensive too!&amp;nbsp; You can buy one of these for $20-$40.&amp;nbsp; Cheap for the convenience, in my opinion.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Here is where we bought ours: &lt;A href="/www.brokenbeauties.com"&gt;www.brokenbeauties.com&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;While I certainly hope that you never need one, if you end up with a cast in your household,&amp;nbsp;I would strongly recommend buying a cast cover!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Until next time, be well!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Erin&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/" target=_blank&gt;ExpectingExecutive&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Helping You Manage Life's Details&lt;/EM&gt; 
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&lt;CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A title="BOSSY's Excellent Road Trip: 2008" href="http://www.iambossy.com/i_am_bossy/2008/01/again-with-the.html"&gt;&lt;IMG alt="I am on BOSSY's excellent road trip." src="http://www.iambossy.com/road-trip-logo.jpg" border=0&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;So, what is a badge and how do you get one?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Well, a badge is really just a piece of photo, graphic or text that has been uploaded somewhere onto a public server and often links to a web page.&amp;nbsp; See?&amp;nbsp; Not complicated.&amp;nbsp; Now some bloggers have terrific artistic skills (and very expensive graphics software) and get very, very creative with the graphic they design as their badge.&amp;nbsp; Me?&amp;nbsp; I am not so talented and I don't own expensive software.&amp;nbsp;So, I enjoy using a site I found that works very well for my limited badge making requirements.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;If that sounds familiar to your current skill set, then get thee over to &lt;A href="http://www.hyplet.com/"&gt;www.hyplet.com&lt;/A&gt; and they will take you step-by-step on how to create a badge that is creative, informative, cute, personal and quirky badges and most importantly, they work!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Here is an example of a badge that I made in about 2 minutes: &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;
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&lt;P&gt;There are avatars, business cards, social network id panels and all sorts of graphics, backgrounds, fonts and other choices that will allow you to get pretty creative without having to master complicated graphics and coding skills.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I do hope this helps&amp;nbsp;one of&amp;nbsp;my blog readers!&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;A href="http://www.hyplet.com"&gt;www.hyplet.com&lt;/A&gt; has been a great, free "web find" for me!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Until next time, be well!&lt;/P&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Erin&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/" target=_blank&gt;ExpectingExecutive&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Helping You Manage Life's Details&lt;/EM&gt; 
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&lt;P&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I love this website.&amp;nbsp; It is free, easy to use&amp;nbsp;and I have used it countless times to modify photos and clip art.&amp;nbsp; You don't have to log-in, create a profile or provide any information in order to immediately get started Snipshot's cropping, resizing, enhancing, adjusting or rotating your art and photo files.&amp;nbsp; I LOVE THIS WEBSITE!&amp;nbsp;(Seriously, I am getting a bit concerned about feeling that strongly about a web site.)&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;The main screen asks you to browse your hard drive for the photo or file that you would like to modify. Once&amp;nbsp;selected, you&amp;nbsp;click the&amp;nbsp;Upload button and within nanoseconds, you are presented with your photo or art and a basic menu you can use to change your photo.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Resizing and cropping have been my most used features.&amp;nbsp; Whether&amp;nbsp;you are using Snipshot&amp;nbsp;to resize for an avatar, profile picture or background,&amp;nbsp;this webware is easy, painless and FREE!&amp;nbsp; Once you have done cutting, resizing, recoloring or enhancing your photo, Snipshot lets you save your file in several formats; .jpg, .gif., .pdf, .psd, .png, and .tif. And, Snipshots is nice enough to simply explain the benefits of each type format. Kewel!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Hint: I have also used Snipshot to change file formats of free clipart.&amp;nbsp; Just an easy breezy thing to do.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="/www.snipshot.com" target=_blank&gt;Snipshot&lt;/A&gt;, a fabulous website you should add to your favorites.&lt;/P&gt;
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&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;Once customers place an order, they can go to &lt;A href="http://www.dominos.com/"&gt;www.dominos.com&lt;/A&gt; and click on the Pizza Tracker icon. They will see a horizontal bar that lights up red as each step in the process is completed. Customers will see confirmation of their order being received by the store; when it's being prepared; when it's been placed in the oven; when it's been boxed and placed in the Domino's HeatWave(TM) bag; and finally, when it's on its way for delivery.&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;
&lt;P&gt;So, is&amp;nbsp;"pizza tracking"&amp;nbsp;necessary? Not really.&amp;nbsp;Will you use it? Maybe.&amp;nbsp;Once or twice. What Dominos website application do I think is cooler? Ordering pizza from your mobile phone on your way home from work - &lt;A href="http://www.dominos.com/home/mobile.jsp" target=_blank&gt;Domino's Mobile&lt;/A&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Enter your mobile number on the website and they will send a link to &lt;A href="http://mobile.dominos.com/"&gt;http://mobile.dominos.com&lt;/A&gt;.&amp;nbsp; You will have to register your number through the website before you can start ordering from your mobile phone - and - text message rates will apply.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I also like the fact that Domino's will let you pre-order your pizza, breadsticks &amp;amp; wings online for your half time food delivery.&lt;/P&gt;
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Lifetime lasting love.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I was 30.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I had&amp;nbsp;a completely unfamiliar and urgent desire&amp;nbsp;to&amp;nbsp;have a baby with this&amp;nbsp;man.&amp;nbsp; I wanted a baby.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I had a son at 33.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;My life turned upside down.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I thought I was prepared.&amp;nbsp; I read all of the books.&amp;nbsp; I surrounded myself with support.&amp;nbsp; On paper, I was ready for motherhood.&amp;nbsp; Before and during my pregnancy, you could not have convinced me that I was not prepared for motherhood.&amp;nbsp; I helped raise my brothers and sisters.&amp;nbsp; My first car was a minivan that came with a soccer schedule.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I even helped with my youngest brother's birth.&amp;nbsp; I was sure I knew what to expect.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;My postpartum experience was a disaster.&amp;nbsp; An absolute disaster.&amp;nbsp; In retrospect, there&amp;nbsp;are many&amp;nbsp;things that I could have done differently that&amp;nbsp;may have eased&amp;nbsp;my motherhood transition.&amp;nbsp; But, even if my initiation into motherhood had been less intense, overwhelming and completely life altering,&amp;nbsp;I don't think it would change my truth that if I had to do everything over again, I would&amp;nbsp;would not have had a baby.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Until now, I have only offered&amp;nbsp;that statement&amp;nbsp;in&amp;nbsp;very private and trusted conversation.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;That statement&amp;nbsp;has been&amp;nbsp;received as an unbelievable surprise to those who know me&amp;nbsp;.&amp;nbsp; As I mentioned, I am a &lt;STRONG&gt;good&lt;/STRONG&gt; mother and there isn't anyone, including my husband or son, who would disagree.&amp;nbsp; The&amp;nbsp;connection and love I have for my son, combined with my ability to properly care for, nurture and&amp;nbsp;teach my son confirms, for me, that I am&amp;nbsp;a good mother.&amp;nbsp; However, it has required tremendous work, unending patience and the gift of time&amp;nbsp;to learn to appreciate and enjoy being a mother.&amp;nbsp; For me, motherhood&amp;nbsp;has been a rocky road.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;One of&amp;nbsp;the &lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2007/05/28/dear-mom--dad-thanks-for-the-education-but.aspx" target=_blank&gt;most surprising things&lt;/A&gt;&amp;nbsp;to me was to find out that I am "not a baby person".&amp;nbsp; Prior to having my son, I have vague memories of hearing other women saying&amp;nbsp;they were not "baby people" but&amp;nbsp;I never knew what that meant.&amp;nbsp; I&amp;nbsp;remember thinking, "how can you NOT like a baby"?&amp;nbsp; I LOVED babies.&amp;nbsp; From my non-mother perspective, tiny babies&amp;nbsp;were cute, smelled good and were fun to hold.&amp;nbsp; I had no ability to understand&amp;nbsp;nor appreciate the notion that not everyone enjoys infants.&amp;nbsp; I get that now.&amp;nbsp; But, how was I to know that I would be one of&amp;nbsp;"those people"?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;As I shed my tears, I was&amp;nbsp;assured that infancy would quickly enough transition to toddler and for many new parents, that is a welcome transition.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;For me,&amp;nbsp;that was a very true prediction.&amp;nbsp; There was something almost magical that happened around my son's second birthday&amp;nbsp;that&amp;nbsp;added&amp;nbsp;considerable pleasure for me as a mother.&amp;nbsp; My love&amp;nbsp;of my son was joined by the&amp;nbsp;"like" of my son.&amp;nbsp; At two, I really liked&amp;nbsp;interacting with&amp;nbsp;my son.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;At two,&amp;nbsp;was no longer a baby,&amp;nbsp;he was a little person.&amp;nbsp; He was talking, walking and purposefully affectionate and engaging.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I had always heard troubling stories of&amp;nbsp;the terrible twos, for me, the age two was a well deserved gift.&amp;nbsp; A true relief.&amp;nbsp; A sign of hope, for me.&amp;nbsp; I love to read Amalah's blog and in &lt;A href="http://www.amalah.com/amalah/2007/10/happiness-is-a-.html" target=_blank&gt;this post&lt;/A&gt;, she shares her moment of "like" for her son.&amp;nbsp; At two, I both&amp;nbsp;loved and liked my son.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;My son will be three next month.&amp;nbsp; This morning he crawled into our bed&amp;nbsp;and wiggled himself over to me with the express intention to be snuggled.&amp;nbsp; What a thrill and a gift to wrap my arms around him, smell his sweet smell, stroke is perfect cheeks and whisper how much I love him.&amp;nbsp; These are the moments I cherish and mindfully add to my memory banks.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Moments like these often accompany&amp;nbsp;the personal testimonies of many mothers when&amp;nbsp;they refer to the joys of their motherhood experience.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Since&amp;nbsp;the day&amp;nbsp;my son was&amp;nbsp;was born, there has always been love.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;My feelings of love were thankfully matched with&amp;nbsp;feelings of "like" at age two.&amp;nbsp; And,&amp;nbsp;at age three, I can&amp;nbsp;gratefully include joy.&amp;nbsp; And,&amp;nbsp;if you are wondering, unfortunately, the joy of motherhood cannot be compared.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;That, of course, is my opinion.&amp;nbsp; &lt;STRONG&gt;Motherhood joy has no equal&lt;/STRONG&gt;.&amp;nbsp; It is this joy that I&amp;nbsp;was unwilling to miss when I was 30 and in love.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I now feel and know motherhood joy.&amp;nbsp; But, at this point, motherhood has not been a net positive experience for me.&amp;nbsp; I cannot tell you that I am a better person now than I was before having a child.&amp;nbsp; I cannot tell you that I am a healthier person, wealthier person, happier person or more confident person.&amp;nbsp; I can tell you that I&amp;nbsp;am a&amp;nbsp;wiser person and that I now know the unequaled joy of motherhood.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;Motherhood joy has come to me with a very heavy cost and I am not willing to offer&amp;nbsp;to any&amp;nbsp;woman&amp;nbsp;who is hesitant&amp;nbsp;or unable to&amp;nbsp;have&amp;nbsp;a child that motherhood joy is an essential life experience.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I was surprised, stunned and saddened that my&amp;nbsp;motherhood transition was so troubled.&amp;nbsp; I have had to work&amp;nbsp;hard, harder than I have worked for anything in my life, to figure out how to emotionally make motherhood&amp;nbsp;work for me.&amp;nbsp; It&amp;nbsp;has been with talk therapy, support from other mothers and&amp;nbsp;using antidepressants to&amp;nbsp;combat&amp;nbsp;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2007/06/14/new-mothers-and-mental-health-ppd.aspx" target=_blank&gt;postpartum depression&lt;/A&gt;&amp;nbsp;that I have been able to emotionally move motherhood&amp;nbsp;from one&amp;nbsp;my weaknesses to&amp;nbsp;one of my strengths.&amp;nbsp; While I knew things would change,&amp;nbsp;I was surprised how&amp;nbsp;drastically motherhood has affected every single aspect of my life.&amp;nbsp; Motherhood has impacted&amp;nbsp;my relationships, my career, my finances, my emotions and my body more that I imagined.&amp;nbsp; &lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2007/07/23/having-a-baby-changes-everything.aspx" target=_blank&gt;Motherhood changes everything&lt;/A&gt;.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Because of my experience, I am not shocked by the actions and reactions of Brittany Spears.&amp;nbsp; I am not shocked to hear of women who leave their children.&amp;nbsp; I am not shocked when mothers&amp;nbsp;cry, yell and emotionally breakdown.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;It does not shock me when&amp;nbsp;mother's go so far to&amp;nbsp;express their frustration, sadness and emotional distress by harming their own children.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;I&amp;nbsp;am deeply troubled and&amp;nbsp;terribly saddened but not shocked.&amp;nbsp; Our society&amp;nbsp;prefers to speak&amp;nbsp;of motherhood in happy, bubbly tones and tolerates sarcastic frustration.&amp;nbsp; There is an unspoken expectation that if you have given birth to a baby, you should also&amp;nbsp;inherently possess the skills you will need to properly, and joyfully, raise a child.&amp;nbsp; Not all women have those skills and not all women will be able to develop those skills.&amp;nbsp; What does a woman do if she has a baby and is never able to find joy&amp;nbsp;in motherhood?&amp;nbsp; In our society, there is a lifetime of shame associated&amp;nbsp;mothers who place their babies up for adoption,&amp;nbsp;so in many cases&amp;nbsp;emotional&amp;nbsp;and/or physical&amp;nbsp;abuse and neglect&amp;nbsp;are often the result of a better&amp;nbsp;alernative not chosen&amp;nbsp;.&amp;nbsp; But, the complicated issue of placing a child up for adoption is best left for another post.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Thank god for blogs!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Some women transition easily into the motherhood role, some women transition over a longer period of time and some women never make the transition at all.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;So, how do we support each other?&amp;nbsp; I think offering personal truth is essential.&amp;nbsp; I&amp;nbsp;firmly believe that respecting a woman's&amp;nbsp;choice to not have children is just as important as supporting a woman's desire to have children.&amp;nbsp; I waffled about adding a child to my life and sat on the proverbial fence for ten years.&amp;nbsp; In retrospect, I think there was some inner wisdom trying to speak to me.&amp;nbsp; In my early twenties, I was sure I did not want children.&amp;nbsp; In my late twenties, I was not sure.&amp;nbsp; In my early thirties,&amp;nbsp;I was in love and did not want to miss the experience of motherhood and I heard the ticking sound of my biological clock loudly.&amp;nbsp; 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&lt;H1 _extended="true"&gt;&lt;FONT size=4&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.cnn.com/2008/TECH/space/01/11/mars.asteroid.ap/index.html?eref=rss_topstories" target=_blank&gt;Asteroid probably won't hit Mars, scientists say&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/H1&gt;&lt;!-- google_ad_section_end --&gt;&lt;!--endclickprintinclude--&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Whew!&amp;nbsp; Okay, now I can get back to worrying about things like the economy, &lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2007/08/20/daycare-is-not-a-dirty-word.aspx" target=_blank&gt;daycare&lt;/A&gt;, &lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2007/08/13/i-worry-about-old-people.aspx" target=_blank&gt;old people&lt;/A&gt;&amp;nbsp;and my &lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/11/how-would-you-ever-recover.aspx" target=_blank&gt;biological information&lt;/A&gt;.&amp;nbsp; So, what worries you?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I seriously need to reconsider my CNN RSS subscription.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Until next time, be well.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;!--startclickprintexclude--&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Erin&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/" target=_blank&gt;ExpectingExecutive&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Helping You Manage Life's Details&lt;/EM&gt; &lt;BR&gt;
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&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><category>Politics</category><category>expectingexecutive</category><category>Voting</category><category>Register to Vote</category><category>rockthevote</category><comments>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/10/wanna-vote-first-you-must-register.aspx#Comments</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">75a44905-bd4b-4ec1-a19c-7e5e04acf445</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2008 22:20:01 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Is Fame Right Around the Corner?</title><link>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/09/is-fame-right-around-the-corner.aspx</link><dc:creator>Expecting Executive</dc:creator><description>Are You a &lt;A href="http://www.topmomma.com/mommas/referal/1418" target=_blank&gt;TopMomma&lt;/A&gt;?&amp;nbsp; Can you and your &lt;STRIKE&gt;mugshot&lt;/STRIKE&gt; picture make it to&amp;nbsp;the front of TopMomma's &lt;A href="http://www.topmomma.com/mommas/referal/1418" target=_blank&gt;website&lt;/A&gt;?&amp;nbsp; Well, the ladies over at TopMomma are double-dog-daring you to see if you make the grade!&amp;nbsp; I submitted my photo.&amp;nbsp; I wonder if I will end up on the TopMomma wall?&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Please use this&amp;nbsp;&lt;A href="http://www.topmomma.com/mommas/referal/1418" target=_blank&gt;link&lt;/A&gt; to vote for me and don't forget to add your photo to the mix!?!?!&amp;nbsp; Please, pretty please?&amp;nbsp; If you do visit&amp;nbsp;&lt;A href="http://www.topmomma.com/mommas/referal/1418" target=_blank&gt;here&lt;/A&gt; and add your photo, please let me know so that I can vote for you too!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Hugs &amp;amp; high-fives!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Erin&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/" target=_blank&gt;ExpectingExecutive&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Helping You Manage Life's Details&lt;/EM&gt; 
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&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><category>link fun</category><category>Contest</category><category>expectingexecutive</category><category>blog traffic</category><category>topmomma</category><comments>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/09/is-fame-right-around-the-corner.aspx#Comments</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">3d6db2de-ece1-429a-bb71-6380be80359b</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 14:21:37 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Meanest Mom on Planet is My HERO!!!</title><link>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/09/meanest-mom-on-planet.aspx</link><dc:creator>Expecting Executive</dc:creator><description>Oh, this was too good not to share with you.&amp;nbsp; &lt;A href="http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/wayoflife/01/09/mean.mom.ap/index.html?eref=rss_topstories" target=_blank&gt;This CNN article&lt;/A&gt;&amp;nbsp;caught my eye and I just had to open it from my GoogleReader.&amp;nbsp; It seems that the "Meanest Mom on the Planet" has a zero-tolerance policy when it comes to alcohol.&amp;nbsp; Just ask her teenage son.&amp;nbsp; His car&amp;nbsp;was sold&amp;nbsp;just months after receiving it&amp;nbsp;because his mother found an empty bottle of booze under the front seat.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;After finding the contraband, this is the ad that was placed in the local newspaper's classified section:&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;
&lt;BLOCKQUOTE&gt;OLDS 1999 Intrigue. Totally uncool parents who obviously don't love teenage son, selling his car. Only driven for three weeks before snoopy mom who needs to get a life found booze under front seat. $3,700/offer. Call meanest mom on the planet.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;&lt;BR&gt;After thinking about this situation, I think this mother should be applauded and commended.&amp;nbsp; Good parenting can sometimes be tough,&amp;nbsp;demanding and can create extreme discomfort.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Congratulations Jane Hambleton for being the meanest mom on the planet!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Until next time, be well,&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Erin&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/" target=_blank&gt;ExpectingExecutive&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Helping You Manage Life's Details&lt;/EM&gt; 
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&lt;P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"&gt;&lt;FONT size=3&gt;&lt;FONT face=Calibri&gt;“Served imperfectly but loved every day of my life.” &lt;/P&gt;&lt;/BLOCKQUOTE&gt;...said John McCain in a speech delivered in&amp;nbsp;New Hampshire.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;An amazing quote.&amp;nbsp; A quote that could be applicable for public service, marriage, parenting, career, religion, etc.&amp;nbsp; I am sure John won't mind it if I borrow his quote and use if from time to time?!?!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;
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&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><category>Politics</category><category>quote</category><category>expectingexecutive</category><comments>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/08/a-great-line.aspx#Comments</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">4bd1d57e-bd7e-4d3a-a4ea-62b2f7f5b656</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 10:34:22 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Video of Bill Gates' Last Day at Microsoft</title><link>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/07/video-of-bill-gates-last-day-at-microsoft.aspx</link><dc:creator>Expecting Executive</dc:creator><description>This is funny, funny, funny!&amp;nbsp; This was shown during Bill Gate's keynote address at the opening of 2008 CES (Consumer Electronics Show).&amp;nbsp; Bill is planning to step-down as a full time Microsoft employee and here is a video that reviews some of his employement options.&amp;nbsp; It is long but it is star studded and OMG funny!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;
&lt;CENTER&gt;&lt;EMBED pluginspage=http://macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer src=http://images.video.msn.com/flash/soapbox1_1.swf width=432 height=364 type=application/x-shockwave-flash quality="high" base="http://images.video.msn.com" allowFullScreen="true" flashvars="c=v&amp;amp;v=be9075bb-df0a-41c9-8d86-7ded46627e26&amp;amp;ifs=true&amp;amp;fr=msnvideo&amp;amp;mkt=en-US&amp;amp;brand="&gt;&lt;/EMBED&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A title="Bill Gates Last Day CES Clip" href="http://video.msn.com/video.aspx?vid=be9075bb-df0a-41c9-8d86-7ded46627e26" target=_new&gt;Video: Bill Gates Last Day CES Clip&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;See?&amp;nbsp; Told you that was funny!&amp;nbsp; Thanks&amp;nbsp;&lt;A href="http://geeksugar.com/930200" target=_blank&gt;GeekSugar&lt;/A&gt; for the video.&amp;nbsp; I love every post I read from you!!!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Until next time, be well,&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Erin&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/" target=_blank&gt;ExpectingExecutive&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Helping You Manage Life's Details&lt;/EM&gt; 
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&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><category>Microsoft</category><category>Celebrities</category><category>ces presentation</category><category>funny video</category><category>Bill Gates</category><comments>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/07/video-of-bill-gates-last-day-at-microsoft.aspx#Comments</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">8b10e0cb-f202-49e0-adc2-b3e9fc24c47a</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:57:39 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Cheap Boxed Mac &amp; Cheese Can Taste Better!</title><link>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/07/cheap-boxed-mac--cheese-can-taste-better.aspx</link><dc:creator>Expecting Executive</dc:creator><description>&lt;CENTER&gt;&lt;FONT size=3&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Making Mac' N Cheese taste just a bit cheesier!&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Try taking this:&lt;BR&gt;
&lt;CENTER&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;A href="http://www.kraftfoods.com/kf/products/productinfodisplay.htm?siteid=1&amp;amp;product=2100065883"&gt;&lt;IMG src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/83475-72975/Kraft_Mac___Cheese.gif" width=164 border=0&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;and after boiling the water, cooking the macaroni, draining the macaroni, adding 1/4 of butter &amp;amp; milk and the powdery cheese packet, add one slice of this: &lt;BR&gt;
&lt;CENTER&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.kraftfoods.com/kf/products/productinfodisplay.htm?siteid=1&amp;amp;product=2100060464"&gt;&lt;IMG src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/83475-72975/Kraft_Cheese.gif" width=164 border=0&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;and you have now improved the cheesy taste of your Mac &amp;amp; Cheese to make it taste more like this: &lt;BR&gt;
&lt;CENTER&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.kraftfoods.com/kf/products/productinfodisplay.htm?siteid=1&amp;amp;product=2100065655"&gt;&lt;IMG src="http://images.quickblogcast.com/83475-72975/mac_n_cheese_deluxe.gif" width=164 border=0&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/CENTER&gt;&lt;BR&gt;and saved a couple of bucks in the process!&amp;nbsp; Enjoy!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Until next time, be well!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Erin&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/" target=_blank&gt;ExpectingExecutive&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Helping You Manage Life's Details&lt;/EM&gt;
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&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><category>Food</category><category>Tips</category><category>expectingexecutive</category><comments>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/07/cheap-boxed-mac--cheese-can-taste-better.aspx#Comments</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">8caf59bc-2544-498e-9fec-0db68de364dc</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 12:42:57 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Head On - I wouldn't put you on my...</title><link>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/07/head-on--i-wouldnt-put-you-on-my.aspx</link><dc:creator>Expecting Executive</dc:creator><description>Dear Head On:&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I had a&amp;nbsp;knock-me-on-my-tukus sinus infection last week.&amp;nbsp; My head hurt worse than those horrible sinus pains you get on an airplane at 25,000 feet in the air when it feels like someone is stabbing you in the forehead with a straight pin.&amp;nbsp; Yep, you got it, worse that THAT!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I went to our local pharmacy for relief.&amp;nbsp; I saw your product on the shelf.&amp;nbsp; Out of curiosity, I picked it up.&amp;nbsp; At the moment my hand touched the Head On packaging, I had a flashback moment (just like the ones in the movies).&amp;nbsp; All at once I heard the LOUD, and OBNOXIOUS "Head On, apply directly to the forehead" chant that I have come to LOATHE!!!&amp;nbsp; As if my hand was on fire, I immediately dropped your product and gathered up my trusty (and commercial quiet) Dayquil and Nyquil products to ease the sniffling, sneezing, coughing, aching and fever so I could rest medicine.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;You may want to re-think your advertising strategy.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;If you are not familiar with the commercial, here is one of them:&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;
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&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</description><category>Medicine</category><category>illness</category><category>expectingexecutive</category><comments>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/07/head-on--i-wouldnt-put-you-on-my.aspx#Comments</comments><guid isPermaLink="false">04d3f8a5-b987-4011-b989-36317cfbc845</guid><pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 11:22:29 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Relative Expectations</title><link>http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/2008/01/05/relative-expectations.aspx</link><dc:creator>Expecting Executive</dc:creator><description>&lt;P&gt;We comfortably and uncomfortably talk, read and listen to new mothers,&amp;nbsp;BTDT (been there done that) mothers and retired mothers (grandmothers) about the expectations, transition and realities of motherhood.&amp;nbsp; There is even a growing group of daddy bloggers out there talking about how having children is affecting their lives and relationships.&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;However, there is not quite as much discussion about the expectation and transition of "step-" relatives and extended family to the new baby.&amp;nbsp; Maybe I am missing some great bloggers talking about this, and if you know someone who is tackling the subjects, please add their blog name and url in the comments section.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;I don't know about you but I have been surprised, delighted, dismayed and downright angry by my extended, step- and in-law family members since having Scooby (who will be three at the end of February.)&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;My father has astounded me.&amp;nbsp; He wears grandpa happily, eagerly and proudly.&amp;nbsp; I personally believe that he is reliving his childhood (the way he wanted it to be) when he is with Scooby.&amp;nbsp; It makes me proud and delighted.&amp;nbsp; This is the same guy I did not speak to for several years after a messy divorce from my mother.&amp;nbsp; But, he is a terrific grandfather.&amp;nbsp; My step-mother has also been great.&amp;nbsp; Having Scooby has given&amp;nbsp;my step-mother and I additional opportunities to get to know one another, trust one another and develop a deeper, more valuable relationship.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;My brothers and sister have been surprising and not.&amp;nbsp; Even though they are now uncles and aunt, for the most part, you wouldn't know it.&amp;nbsp; Only my one brother sent Scooby a Christmas gift this year.&amp;nbsp; It is important to know that my siblings live far, far away from us.&amp;nbsp; Santa Fe, Salt Lake City and San Diego.&amp;nbsp; My sister was here for three hours two days ago and did not bring Scooby a card, gift or anything for Christmas.&amp;nbsp; Sigh.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;My step-brother and sister are considerably younger than me and also live far away.&amp;nbsp; They are charming and engaging when Scooby is with them but he is quickly forgotten in the busy lives that 20 year old young adults lead.&amp;nbsp; In my mind, I had not attached any personal expectations for my step-brother and sister and they have not surprised me by responding differently.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;My two step-daughters have been surprising, troubling and irritating.&amp;nbsp; It has been very hard for me to know what to expect and what behaviors to encourage from them.&amp;nbsp; You see, they were 17 and 19 when Scooby was introduced to their lives.&amp;nbsp; Babies are cute and the girls loved him instantly.&amp;nbsp; They tried to spend a lot of time with him when he was little bitty but their interest in him has waned and much of the new has worn off as we have gotten to know each other better.&amp;nbsp; Their behavior over Christmas still has me seeing RED (with smoke, flames and volcano noises) even though we had&amp;nbsp;it all pre-planned, the girls did not show up to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas morning with their father, half-brother and I.&amp;nbsp; No calls.&amp;nbsp; No returned calls.&amp;nbsp; No presents.&amp;nbsp; No photos for memory making.&amp;nbsp; Sigh.&amp;nbsp; There is obviously a longer back story to this and I will not bore you with the details but I was surprised by my feelings of rage, hurt, frustration and disbelief.&amp;nbsp; Now what am I supposed to do?&amp;nbsp; &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;My mother-in-law and I met for the first time this Christmas season, for reasons that are too long, detailed,&amp;nbsp;inane and actually boring to provide.&amp;nbsp; My husband and my mother-in-law had not seen each other in more than 10 years! She is lovely, treated me kindly, enjoyed her time with my husband (her son) and is anxious to meet her grandson, Scooby.&amp;nbsp; What a lovely experience and I look forward to many more!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;My own mother has provided me with the most unexpected familial transition as it relates to my son, the first born of the "next generation".&amp;nbsp; On paper, my mom is WORLD's #1 GRANDMA!!!&amp;nbsp; If you call her, email her, stop by her desk at work, visit her home...she is all things grandmother.&amp;nbsp; She proudly displays pre-school art, photos and will share information about her grandson, Scooby.&amp;nbsp; However, my mom came to visit in&amp;nbsp;us&amp;nbsp;during the weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;My mom also lives far away, about 100 miles from Washington, DC.&amp;nbsp; At first my mother was thrilled to see her grandson and there was lots of immediate celebration and enjoyment upon her arrival.&amp;nbsp; However, as the days passed, my mother's interest in her grandson went from relatively high to pretty much non-existent.&amp;nbsp; I was (am) stunned.&amp;nbsp; How could she not want to wrap her arms around him the entire time she was here?&amp;nbsp; How could she not want to engage him in his funny little almost-three years old conversations?&amp;nbsp; How could she not want to play with him, color with him, sing with him and cuddle with him?&amp;nbsp; What kind of a grandmother was this woman who I did not recognize?&amp;nbsp; Oh, how I was disappointed!&amp;nbsp; Then, I remembered.&amp;nbsp; I remembered my youth.&amp;nbsp; I remembered being the oldest and I remember observing her with my younger siblings.&amp;nbsp; My mom is not a "kid person".&amp;nbsp; She likes infants and adults.&amp;nbsp; My mom "doesn't do" kid.&amp;nbsp; It just reminds me that while there are different "kinds" of mothers, there are also different kinds of grandmothers.&amp;nbsp; Not all of them are the idealist version we broadly brush stroke across our society.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;So, I have all of these relatives that are now related to my son.&amp;nbsp; What I want for my son and his relationships with his half-sisters, aunt, uncles, step-aunt,&amp;nbsp;step uncle,&amp;nbsp;grandfather, step-grandmother and grandmother may&amp;nbsp;not translate into&amp;nbsp;a realistic expectation.&amp;nbsp; I don't want to create&amp;nbsp;any environment that&amp;nbsp;discourages any relationship (even if I consider it "not enough") Scooby can have with his entire family. Sigh and more sighs.&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;So,&amp;nbsp;I am working on&amp;nbsp;tweaking my prior expectations and creating realistic ones.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;What&amp;nbsp;can I do to create positive experiences and&amp;nbsp;provide opportunities to nurture bonding between&amp;nbsp;Scooby and&amp;nbsp;&lt;STRIKE&gt;my&lt;/STRIKE&gt;&amp;nbsp;his family?&amp;nbsp; Well, I am not sure but I have a couple ideas and I am hoping for the best.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Hmmm...when great expectations meet your relatives you get relative expectations I guess.&amp;nbsp; Anyone care to share their experiences with new motherhood and their extended family members?&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Until next time, be well!&lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;Erin&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://blogspot.expectingexecutive.com/" target=_blank&gt;ExpectingExecutive&lt;/A&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Helping You Manage Life's Details&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
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